Big changes in your life are just that, yours. No matter what happens, even though it makes the news, it’s only for a news cycle. Only you experience it, those close to you feel the impact, whether good or bad, but the world?  It moves on.

Some have have surmised this to near that the world doesn’t care about what happens to you. The reality is that only you can live your life; you can’t share what you feel with others. No matter how good you are an orator, others can only imagine what you are going through: be they giddy with excitement, ecstatic, upset, distraught, or can only imagine what they are going through.

We know the world moves on because of other’s expectations of us. No matter what’s going on in your life, good or bad, your job, obligations bring reality back into focus. When you’re you’re happy, this humbles you, it serves as a reminder  that the world doesn’t revolve around you. When going through tough times, routines are  a good thing,  they help slow down your mind, so that you can deal with your big changes in bite sized portions.