This question has a time and place.
Time: when you’ve had enough of your life as is. When you’re debunking the plane you’ve been on and are boarding a new one.
Place. When you at a cross road. The moment of truth. After you’ve had enough and are contemplating to change directions, this is where you choose what direction to take. Remain on the same course, or take a new one.
You are an average of the five people you hang around with. Your circle speaks volumes of who you are and where your future is headed… If you keep following the same route. Those in your circle are attached to you because of your priorities. When you keep on the same path, you keep the circle alive, and it grows stronger.
When it decide you’ve had enough, when you choose a different path, your circle starts changing. Some stay on. Those who equally want to change course with you will stick around. It’s natural, but that doesn’t mean that it’s not painful.
You are the average of the five people you hang around most. Look around you, you will learn more about your self. If you don’t like it, change your circle, but if you do, stick there, like glue.